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á        What was the happiest moment of your life? The saddest?

á        Who was the most important person in your life? Can you tell me about him or her?

á        Who has been the biggest influence on your life? What lessons did they teach you?

á        Who has been the kindest to you in your life?

á        What are the most important lessons youÕve learned in life?

á        What is your earliest memory?

á        Are there any words of wisdom youÕd like to pass along to me?

á        What are you proudest of in your life?

á        When in life have you felt most alone?

á        How has your life been different than what youÕd imagined?

á        How would you like to be remembered?

á        Do you have any regrets?

á        What does your future hold?

á        Is there anything that youÕve never told me but want to tell me now?

á        Is there something about me that youÕve always wanted to know but have never asked?

 

Friends

 

á        What is your first memory of me?

á        Was there a time when you didnÕt like me?

á        What makes us such good friends?

á        How would you describe me? How would you describe yourself?

á        Where will we be in 10 years? 20 years?

á        Do you think weÕll ever lose touch with each other?

á        Is there anything that youÕve always wanted to tell me but havenÕt?

 

Grandparents

 

á        Where did you grow up?

á        What was your childhood like?

á        Who were your favorite relatives?

á        Do you remember any of the stories they used to tell you?

á        How did you and grandma/grandpa meet?

á        What was my mom/dad like growing up?

á        Do you remember any songs that you used to sing to her/him? Can you sing them now?

á        Was she/he well-behaved?

á        What is the worst thing she/he ever did?

á        What were your parents like?

á        What were your grandparents like?

á        How would you like to be remembered?

á        Are you proud of me?

 

Raising children

 

á        When did you first find out that youÕd be a parent? How did you feel?

á        Can you describe the moment when you saw your child for the first time?

á        How has being a parent changed you?

á        What are your dreams for your children?

á        Do you remember when your last child left home for good?

á        Do you have any favorite stories about your kids?

 

Parents

 

á        Do remember what was going through your head when you first saw me?

á        How did you choose my name?

á        What was I like as a baby? As a young child?

á        Do you remember any of the songs you used to sing to me? Can you sing them now?

á        What were my siblings like? What were the hardest moments you had when I was growing up?

á        If you could do everything again, would you raise me differently?

á        What advice would you give me about raising my own kids?

á        What are your dreams for me?

á        How did you meet mom/dad?

á        Are you proud of me?

 

Growing up

 

á        When and where were you born?

á        Where did you grow up?

á        What was it like?

á        Who were you parents?

á        What were your parents like?

á        How was your relationship with your parents?

á        Did you get into trouble? What was the worst thing you did?

á        Do you have any siblings? What were they like growing up?

á        What did you look like?

á        How would you describe yourself as a child? Were you happy?

á        What is your best memory of childhood? Worst?

á        Did you have a nickname? HowÕd you get it?

á        Who were your best friends? What were they like?

á        How would you describe a perfect day when you were young?

á        What did you think your life would be like when you were older?

á        Do you have any favorite stories from your childhood?

 

School

 

á        Did you enjoy school?

á        What kind of student were you?

á        What would you do for fun?

á        How would your classmates remember you?

á        Are you still friends with anyone from that time in your life?

á        What are your best memories of grade school/high school/college/graduate school? Worst memories?

á        Was there a teacher or teachers who had a particularly strong influence of your life? Tell me about them.

á        Do you have any favorite stories from school?

 

Love and relationships

 

á        Do you have a love of your life?

á        When did you first fall in love?

á        Can you tell me about your first kiss?

á        What was your first serious relationship?

á        Do you believe in love at first sight?

á        Do you ever think about previous lovers?

á        What lessons have you learned from your relationships?

 

Marriage

 

á        How did you meet your husband/wife?

á        How did you know he/she was "the one"?

á        How did you propose?

á        What were the best times? The most difficult times?

á        Did you ever think of getting divorced?

á        Did you ever get divorced? Can you tell me about it?

á        What advice do you have for young couples?

á        Do you have any favorite stories from your marriage or about your husband/wife?

 

Working

 

á        What do you do for a living? Tell me about how you got into your line of work.

á        Do you like your job?

á        What did you think you were going to be when you grew up?

á        What did you want to be when you grew up?

á        What lessons has your work life taught you?

á        If you could do anything now, what would you do? Why?

á        Do you plan on retiring? If so, when? How do you feel about it?

á        Do you have any favorite stories from your work life?

 

Religion

 

á        Can you tell me about your religious beliefs/spiritual beliefs? What is your religion?

á        Have you experienced any miracles?

á        What was the most profound spiritual moment of your life?

á        Do you believe in God?

á        Do you believe in the after-life? What do you think it will be like?

á        When you meet God, what do you want to say to Him?

 

Serious Illness

 

á        Can you tell me about your illness?

á        Do you think about dying? Are you scared?

á        How do you imagine your death?

á        Do you believe in an after-life?

á        Do you regret anything?

á        Do you look at your life differently now than before you were diagnosed?

á        Do you have any last wishes?

á        If you were to give advice to me or my children, or even children to come in our family, what would it be?

á        What have you learned from life? The most important things?

á        Has this illness changed you? What have you learned?

á        How do you want to be remembered?

 

Family heritage

 

á        What is your ethnic background?

á        Where is your momÕs family from? Where is your dadÕs family from?

á        Have you ever been there? What was that experience like?

á        What traditions have been passed down in your family?

á        Who were your favorite relatives?

á        Do you remember any of the stories they used to tell you?

á        What are the classic family stories? Jokes? Songs?

 

War

 

á        Were you in the military?

á        Did you go to war? What was it like?

á        How did war change you?

á        During your service, can you recall times when you were afraid?

á        What are your strongest memories from your time in the military?

á        What lessons did you learn from this time in your life?

 

 

From: StoryCorps Questions - http://www.storycorps.net/record-your-story/question-generator/list